Resource Development October 3, 2025

Growing Strong Relationships by Patrick Doty

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Maintaining and Growing Donor Engagement

Daily at home, I have a growing population of wild chickens that like to hang around, climb the trees, and make a mess of my garden. In today’s climate, with egg prices the way they have been, you might say that I live on a modern-day goldmine. But when you also have a dog, things can get wild. 

The other day, I let my dog outside and watched him immediately take off to combat a rooster that was hanging around. I grabbed a nearby leash and spent the next few minutes chaotically trying to catch my dog. When I finally got hold of him, I went to latch his leash and realized I hadn’t put his collar on. I spent all this time and effort catching my dog, only to result in a further struggle to wrangle him back inside the house. 

While I hope your fundraising program doesn’t resemble a dog chasing a rooster, there is a valuable lesson to be learned here. 

Cultivate Relationships

Acquiring donors requires a significant amount of work and is crucial to the overall health of your fundraising program. However, if you can’t retain those donors, the time and investment spent acquiring them have been lost. 

Seize every opportunity to review and refine your cultivation efforts, ensuring that both you and your donors benefit from this relationship. 

Here are a few ways to optimize your fundraising efforts.

Affirm Your Donors 

One-size-fits-all messaging can make donors feel like just another number. Instead, personalize communication and affirm donor support. 

  • Address donors by name. 
  • Recognize their past contributions and the impact they’ve made. 
  • Use inclusive language that celebrates their support and what they have made possible!

A culture of gratitude fosters donor loyalty. 

Provide Meaningful Updates


Donors don’t give to help your organization succeed. They offer for the impact you’re having on people. Tell them! 

  • Showcase real stories of lives being changed 
  • Provide tangible results from donations 
  • Include photos, videos, and testimonials 
  • Deliver stories through multiple channels, including email, social media, and print newsletters. 

A culture of report-back fosters donor trust. 

Encourage Continued Donor Engagement


Donors are people! And most people don’t want to be forgotten. Ensure that your donors are aware that you haven’t forgotten their past support. 

  • Identify the average point when your lapsed donors stop giving, and send pre-lapse communication. 
  • Re-engage with lapsed donors through personalized messaging, letting them know they are missed. 
  • Offer matching gift opportunities to renew support.

A culture of consistency fosters donor commitment. 

It All Matters

In college, I made a $20 donation toward a nonprofit that I believed in. For a student, it was a lot of money, but I’m sure it was just a drop in the bucket for the organization. Regardless, a few days later, I received a personal phone call thanking me for my support. That big gesture in response to my small gift made me a lifetime supporter. 

Building and maintaining strong relationships with your donors is an ongoing process, but without them, would you exist?


Patrick Doty is a Senior Consultant for Client Services at Douglass Shaw and Associates.  He serves with a team of committed professionals who are passionate and innovative in bringing their clients fundraising success.


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